Monday, April 26, 2010

Controlling the Tongue

James 3:6 states "And the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself."

It just simply amazes me some of the things that come out of peoples mouths. Things that they think are so funny, but make me cringe because of the stupidity behind the words. Words that are degrading, hurtful, demeaning, and just plain ridiculous. What makes us say things that are so hurtful to others?

I often wonder what it would be like to have my own censorship so I wouldn't have to listen to what some individuals say. I find myself laughing at what they say, not because I believe it's funny, but of how ridiculous it is. How do you approach someone who speaks negatively of women, and other people? Especially when they hold a position of power. I find myself struggling with that question each and everyday.

Why must people stoop to this level to talk about people, or just in general. If they would only realize how stupid it makes them look to other people. While I struggle everyday with this, I pray that God will put words in my mouth that are pleasing to Him.

I challenge you to tame your tongue. To speak words that are pleasing to God, and show love for others. Speak words that are uplifting and encouraging.

God Bless.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Life Journey #1

So I can't decide what to type on here, or where to even start. I guess I'll start with the name of the blog, Life's Ordinary Journey.

I've always looked at my life as just a normal life, nothing too exciting, nothing out of the ordinary. Growing up I'd say life was just normal. Going to school, hanging out with friends, nothing too exciting. I always thought that the real challenges in life would be when I moved away from home, believe me they did.

College you could say was a roller coaster ride. It had it's ups and it's downs. Going to class was always a challenge especially after being up late, or doing things I really shouldn't have been doing, but when you are away from your parents you feel like you are finally free, but the choices you make can greatly impact your life.

The greatest thing about college was that's where I met my wife. I never had any serious relationships until I met her. When you meet someone that when you are away from them you miss them terribly, and you want to spend every minute with them, you just know it's meant to be. I learned a lot in college, not just on the education side, but life.

Life can come at you quick, and you never know what's going to happen. I did a lot of things I now regret, but have come to live with in college, and hopefully I can use my "Ordinary Journey" to help people see that there are better choices in life than alcohol and drug use.

Stay tuned for the next episode.......